Private schools: what to expect and how to pick the right one
Thinking about private school? You’re not alone. Private schools promise smaller classes, different curricula, and extra activities — but they also mean tuition, testing, and a selection process. Here’s a practical, no-fluff guide to figure out if a private school is the right move and how to choose one that actually fits your child.
What private schools commonly offer
Private schools often have smaller class sizes, which usually means more teacher attention and faster feedback. Many follow specialized curricula — IB, Montessori, religious programs, or college-prep tracks — so check whether the school’s approach matches your child’s learning style. Expect more extracurricular options in arts, sports, and clubs; that matters if your child needs out-of-class engagement.
Facilities can vary: some schools have up-to-date labs, theaters, and athletic fields; others are more modest but focused on strong teaching. Ask about teacher credentials and turnover. Long-serving, qualified teachers often signal stability and better student support. Also check how the school measures progress — standardized tests, narrative reports, or project portfolios — and whether that aligns with your goals.
Costs, financial aid, and real value
Tuition is the obvious barrier. Get a full breakdown: tuition, registration, books, uniforms, activity fees, and field trips. Then ask about financial aid and scholarships. Many private schools reserve funds for families who need it or for students with specific talents. Don’t assume aid is limited; apply and compare net costs, not just sticker price.
Think beyond price. A higher-fee school may offer strong college counseling, internship connections, or special programs that speed your child’s growth. If those supports matter to you, calculate value by outcomes: graduation rates, college placements, or vocational paths for older students.
If your child needs special education services, ask directly how the school supports learning differences. Some private schools have dedicated special-ed staff, while others expect private therapists. Get written descriptions of accommodations and evidence of past success with similar students.
Visit more than once — in class if possible — and bring these concrete questions: What is the average class size? How do you handle discipline? What supports exist for struggling students? Can you speak with current parents? Observe whether staff are welcoming and whether students seem engaged.
Watch for red flags: evasive answers about student outcomes, high teacher turnover, or unclear policies on inclusion and safety. Trust your instincts — if something feels off during visits, investigate further or move on.
Finally, involve your child. Their comfort matters more than prestige. A good fit means your child feels seen, challenged, and safe. Choosing a private school is about matching needs, values, and resources. With targeted questions and a few visits, you’ll find the option that helps your child thrive.
